i was with my ex for 4 years and our relationship was on and off and he was a very posessive person. He did not like me hanging out with a few colleagues but i continued doing it as our relationship was on and off and i did not wanna lose my friends over it. i have lied to him a few times and last evening i felt i had to be honest with him and he ended up being real harsh and told me not to ever call him again.. dunno wad 2 do