i tried to give my boyfriend(ldr) a surprise,went down to see him. only to find that not only would he not meet me,but wouldnt even answer my call,because i hadnt informed him that i was coming(hello!! what does surprise mean??) in my hurry,had also managed to forget my wallet. was stuck with no money,waiting for him to switch on his phone till midnight. and this was one of the better days in our relationship.i'm done with relationships(and surprises) for now....