So after 3 years in a relationship that was going nowhere I finally got out (He was 27, I was 17. I thought he loved me. He figured he could get away with zero effort & collect all the benefits). I started seeing someone else. It's been almost a year but I still couldn't forget my ex (the fact that he contacts me regularly with compliments & asks when I'm coming back to him prob didn't help). I finally cracked & told him how I really felt about him today and that I want him back & he told me he's seeing someone else & apparantly she means more to him than I do. So what were all those fucking texts, phone calls and visits about? Just to fuck with my state of mind? WTF!!? Men suck!!!!!!!!!!